I started reading this book yesterday. And if you're a parent, you should follow suit and head to your nearest library/bookstore immediately.
The philosophy is dead simple; five times more love than reproval is the key. Making room for "superspecial" time with your child everyday is the core to this, not just including him in everyday chores and such, but to actually take time and completely focus on your offspring to strengthen the relationship and bond.
I've started already. Today I popped Monster in a bath and, for the first time ever, got in the bath with him. We spent half an hour in there, splashing water and playing with cars and dinosaurs and laughing more than we normally do in a week. It was great.
It's not that I don't think I'm a good parent. I know I'm a good parent, but I want to be a GREAT parent. I want to be the best mum ever. And the most fun. And anything that helps me get there is ever so welcome.
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